Half of the Divine Pair

Gender Roles!!! Yes, indeed, that highly controversial subject currently up for debate (as if you can vote on changing what God has decreed). We've been studying gender roles and identities this week and there has been some really incredible insights brought up. I've heard Sister Julie B Beck talk about men and women calling them each half of the divine pair. It seems that one is always trying to make themselves superior over the other. Through the ages, men have been considered the superior sex. Now it seems the pendulum is swinging and women are allowed far more leeway. It seems we struggle to figure out what equality means. It does NOT mean exactly the same! Without either men or women the divine pair would not be complete. God made us so that we need each other. The role of women is different from that of men and is vitally important. So, it stands to reason that Satan would attack and demean it in an effort to thwart God's plan. Men and women were not meant to be the same but that doesn't mean one is less. The qualities that so often define women are qualities that help us to complete the divine whole. These lines should not be blurred. That doesn't mean that men have to do only manly things and women aren't allowed to be tough. It means knowing our identity with a surety that enables us to reach our full potential next to someone of the opposite gender who we can become one with. President Packer gave an incredible parable illustrating this that has always been a great comfort and strength to me. Here it is:

THE PARABLE OF THE TWO KEYS

"Once a man received as his inheritance two keys. The first key, he was told, would open a vault which he must protect at all cost. The second key was to a safe within the vault which contained a priceless treasure. He was to open this safe and freely use the precious things which were stored therein. He was warned that many would seek to rob him of his inheritance. He was promised that if he used the treasure worthily, it would be replenished and never be diminished, not in all eternity. He would be tested. If he used it to benefit others, his own blessings and joy would increase. "The man went alone to the vault. His first key opened the door. He tried to unlock the treasure with the other key, but he could not, for there were two locks on the safe. His key alone would not open it. No matter how he tried, he could not open it. He was puzzled. He had been given the keys. He knew the treasure was rightfully his. He had obeyed instructions, but he could not open the safe.
"In due time, there came a woman into the vault. She, too, held a key. It was noticeably different from the key he held. Her key fit the other lock. It humbled him to learn that he could not obtain his rightful inheritance without her.
"They made a covenant that together they would open the treasure and, as instructed, he would watch over the vault and protect it; she would watch over the treasure. She was not concerned that, as guardian of the vault, he held two keys, for his full purpose was to see that she was safe as she watched over that which was most precious to them both. Together they opened the safe and partook of their inheritance. They rejoiced for, as promised, it replenished itself.
"With great joy they found that they could pass the treasure on to their children; each could receive a full measure, undiminished to the last generation. Perhaps some few of their posterity would not find a companion who possessed the complementary key, or one worthy and willing to keep the covenants relating to the treasure. Nevertheless, if they kept the commandments, they would not be denied even the smallest blessing.
"Because some tempted them to misuse their treasure, they were careful to teach their children about keys and covenants. There came, in due time, among their posterity some few who were deceived or jealous or selfish because one was given two keys and another only one. "Why," the selfish ones reasoned, "cannot the treasure be mine alone to use as I desire?"
"Some tried to reshape the key they had been given to resemble the other key. Perhaps, they thought, it would then fit both locks. And so it was that the safe was closed to them. Their reshaped keys were useless, and their inheritance was lost.
"Those who received the treasure with gratitude and obeyed the laws concerning it knew joy without bounds through time and all eternity." (Packer, Ensign, Nov. 1993 pp. 23)